Public toilet cruising gay

Of the places gay people have transformed into sites to cruise for sex—from parks like the Central Park Ramble and Berlin’s Tiergarten, to sanctums prefer Provincetown’s Dick Dock and Fire Island’sMeat Rack—few have impacted the queer psyche like the widespread restroom.

“Mischief in universal toilets left more traces in vice squad logbooks than in high literature,” photographer Marc Martin writes in the introduction to his new exhibition at Berlin’s Schwules* Museum, Fenster Zum Klo [Window to the Toilet]: Universal Toilets, Private Affairs. (Full disclosure: I’m a Schwules* employee in the curation and exhibition department.) And while many modern queers would rather forget this chapter of their people’s sordid past, public restrooms are undeniably places where community and connection were kindled among us against unlikely odds. “These common toilets, whose history is intertwined with the lives and adventures of many gays, trans people, escorts, libertines, are also unlikely bastions of freedom,” Martin writes.

Martin has spent years collecting tens of thousands of historic objects and photos and conducting dozens of interviews about restrooms to try to capture the essence

Public bathroom gay cruising: Exploring the dynamics and culture of public bathroom cruising

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Cottaging & Cruising: Legal Penalties

What is the history of cottaging?

In the mid 20th Century, those who partook in cottaging didn’t execute so out of fantasy or fetish.

Cottaging was the only way that gay men could connect other gay men, secret away from the government. Furthermore, the concept of being “out” wasn’t normalised yet, and so a surreptitious culture of common sex began across the country.

The government would dispatch units of police officers to inspect public toilets and parks in a bid to “rid England of this plague”, with undercover police often arresting cottagers for indecent assault. Whatsmore, it’s estimated that during the 1950’s approximately 1,000 men were imprisoned every year for cottaging and “lewd” behaviour. 

Is cottaging still popular today?

Cottaging is becoming less popular as gay rights progress further.

The secret side of queer relationships we witnessed in the past now welcomes modern LGBT family models, marriages and parenting styles. Despite the dwindling numbers, cruising grounds and cottaging spaces can still be located in most cities, if you recognize where to look!


How did toilet cruising work?
February 17, 2015 3:19 PM   Subscribe

I was reading an gay travel guide from 1980, and it reminded me that I've never understood the mechanics of the toilet pick-up. One of the notable features of the guide is that among all the bars and bathhouses listed, many locations also advise cruising toilets. This seems soinherently sketchy. How would you perceive when it was safe to signal to somebody? Don't you run the constant risk of an embarrassing and dangerous confrontation? Do you actually have sex in the bathroom, or is a rendezvous point? And given that these locations are so well established that they arrive in a travel guide, wouldn't they be easy pickings for the police?


Any info or stories about etiquette and uncertainty mitigation would be of interest.

Bonus points if you can explain how toilet cruising worked in an international context. After a strong warning about how dangerous cruising is in the Middle East, for example, the guide lists toilets in Syria and Kuwait. There are similar listings throughout the planet. While cruising in the U.S. sounds risky, it seems appreciate only those with a death wish would cruise toilets as a tou