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Q: My roommate is a gay man who is into getting fisted. A lot. We were FWBs until he moved into my place, at which point we agreed it would be better for us to not own sex anymore. It’s worked out fine, and he’s been here for a year. Here’s the problem: About two years ago, he got into fisting and he has someone over every night to fist him. As soon as he comes abode from work, he spends a good hour in the bathroom cleaning out, and then some guy comes over to fist him. Every single night. My roommate is a very attractive guy who doesn’t think he’s attractive at all. I’ve talked to him a limited times about whether he’s being sexually compulsive, but he just laughs and says, “Well, you suck a lot of dick.” (I have a strong but moderate sex life.) I am concerned that all this ass engage is not healthy. As a friend, I yearn him to seek serve for his sexual compulsion, his low self-esteem, and his social isolation. As a roommate, I am tired of all these strange men coming into my home and the high water bill.
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A: “Fisting is a well and safe sexual action so long as the partic
What Is It About Fisting That Some Gay Men Are Attracted To?
The Fister is actually doing two important things physically to the Fistee.
He’s one expanding the exterior and interior sphincter muscles, forcing them to relax and then contract again around his wrist and perhaps arm. Remain with us, don’t faint. It’s more frightening to actually see it in slow motion on a video. The sensation is one of being opened and filled. Which requires a lot of relaxation, lube and trust. Don't just let someone you met that night fist you. And make sure they remove rings and watches and their nails are clipped...So you hold a hand and push it into an orifice that’s generally smaller than a hand and that’s fisting. And most people are appreciate “yuck,” even though fisting isn’t that much objectively weirder than regular, garden-variety sex. But the mechanics and implied force turn people off, and so fisting has a stigma.
But for many, the stigma is unwarranted and fisting is a joy. So, for the sake of fostering honest and stigma-free conversations around sex in all its variously human forms, we spoke to a few people who enjoy it. Both giving, as well as receiving. They spoke about how they disc
Fisting
This post is written by Chris Dunbar, our Sexual Health Outreach Worker.
When it comes to exercise in the bedroom, no one can tell you what you can and can’t do. Trying new things often makes it more exciting and amusing, particularly if you are the adventurous type. The crucial thing is to make sure you do things safely.
So, lets take the plunge, and scout the less commonly talked about behave of fisting.
Right, so where do we begin? Just enjoy with fisting, let’s not just dive straight in. Let’s take some period to prepare. Let’s look at some of the history, facts, and risks associated, then we can lube ourselves up and absorb some techniques and tips to deliver it a go.
What is Fisting?
So, as the name suggests, fisting is a sexual activity in which a hand is inserted into the rectum or vagina. Once the hand is inside, the fingers can be clenched into a fist or kept straight, this is down to personal preference or choice. Although commonly practised with a second person, fisting can be performed solo.
Other names may include: handballing, fist fucking, hoofing, fister, giving a Muppet, or the five-finger butt blast, to give just a few.
The History
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Depending on your point of view, fisting might be a sex act that feels extreme, kinky, or limited to the realm of pornography; it might be something that you do on a weekly basis. It might also feel like scissoring: a sex act you’ve heard about, but weren’t confident could be a realistic part of anyone’s day-to-day sex life.
If any of this ambiguity resonates with you, you’re not alone; for some, there’s been confusion over whether fisting in porn is prohibited in porn by obscenity laws, and it’s certainly not something regularly covered in American sexual education. But there’s no question that it’s also an extremely common and enjoyable practice for a lot of folks, often rooted in queer culture but enjoyed by people of various genders and sexual orientations. If it’s something you’ve always had questions about, or want to make sure you’re well informed about before trying at abode, here’s what I think is most important to know to get started with fisting.
What is fisting?
Put very simply, fisting is the act of inserting your entire hand and sometimes forearm inside somebody, either in the vagina or rectum. Despite the name, it’s easier to conceive this if you remember t