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14."I went on a trip to a tropical country. I found a petty, secluded, resort-type place with a prevent while exploring the area. I spent the entire sunlight there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go scan by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me..."
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came support with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could endeavor, and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
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1. Foreplay before play
When topping for the first time it can be intimidating so we suggest building a lot of trust with your partner by exploring each other’s bodies through foreplay before starting insertive sex.
2. Talk the talk
Communication is incredibly important when you are topping, particularly if it’s for the first day. Get comfortable checking in with your partner and asking them how they liked to be fucked. (do they need foreplay? Act they need to be fingered?) Equally, if you recognize there is something that your spouse does that makes you rock strenuous then ask for it!
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Tips for cis men who wish to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s vital to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and spot as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We talk about trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic
Advice for Your First Gay Date
Taking a right on Fletcher Navigate on the eastside of Los Angeles, there’s a billboard with two male figures under a caption that reads, “Sorry, This Is My First Moment Being Gay.” To this day, I have no clue what the billboard is advertising, but my friends and I quote it reflexively whenever we take Fletcher to the I-5. There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. The anxiety and insecurity that comes with your first sexual gay encounter is universal in the queer community, and yet the idea that “being gay” is something that can be activated in a single moment is absurd.
Your first queer date, whether that be in high educational facility or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening switch. As a hapless dork with anxiety, every second I was in the “queer theory section” (which was expansive in my liberal arts school), I would sit on the floor and read through book after book in the hopes that some gay savvy would be absorbed through the words. I went down internet wormholes. I took every “